Don't stress out. If you are planning a
wedding in NC, SC, Atlanta, Greenville, or anywhere in the US, here's a
few simple tips. These ideas have been gathered after searching many web
pages and other resources. This wedding tips list has been compiled to
help you make your plans for your most important day. If you have any
other suggestions or tips on planning a wedding, let us know by visiting
our contact
page. This information will be used to help other brides in planning their
weddings.
Follow the time line at the bottom of the page to make
planning your wedding simpler. Print out this page to keep as a checklist
for your wedding planning needs. Also consider these other important pages
to make planning your wedding less stressful:
Announce your engagement - Get a photo and
send it with your announcement to local newspapers.
Set the date - If possible, have this
ready when you send out your engagement announcement.
Engagement party/dinner - This could be
simple with the parents of the couple, or you may want to invite all
your friends.
Set Budget - Weddings can be very simple
or very elaborate. This is unlike any other time in your life. Plan
carefully together. The decisions you make now will effect you for the
rest of your life. Discuss who is paying for what and how expenses will
be shared.
Hire a wedding consultant(optional) - They know many vendors, venue's, etc. The price you pay
them can save you incredible amounts of time. This time you save can
help you in making other arrangements.
Start a file folder - You are going to be
making many contacts and decisions. Keep these in a single file so you
can easily find what you need.
Start compiling invitation list - You may
wish to do this together. While it would be nice to have everybody, it
may not be possible due to space or finances.
Select your bridal party - This will give
them plenty of notice and time to make sure they won't have other plans.
Book your ceremony and
reception site- OK. This may seem a little early, but what if
you wait till the last and you can't get where you wanted? We have about
175 wedding leads we keep on file. We get about 3-5 more leads per
day. Weddings are happening all around us. Go HERE
for wedding reception sites. You can look locally in the Asheville area
or search nation wide.
Discuss Apparel - Consider the bride, groom, and
bridal party. Order dresses and tuxedo's. This will allow plenty of time
for alterations, if needed.
Hire a photographer
- A good photographer will help you to keep those memories of a
lifetime.
Hire a videographer - Maybe for just those
special moments.
Hire the band - This can't be emphasized
enough. The Great Imponderables are booking in excess of 1 year in
advance on several occasions. Please contact us immediately to
check availability of your event. Of course, we are the band
you'll hire, if you want people to get up, dance, and have a great time.
Choose Ceremony music - This can be done
on a cd, a small musical group, or perhaps by a friend. We supply this
music on a cd and then move to the reception.
Select your first songs (first dance,
father/bride, mother/son, bridal party) and notify the band. They may
need time to learn them. Make sure they have plenty of time.
Purchase any necessary items for the wedding and
the reception (toast glasses, guest book, candles, etc).
Order invitations, finalize your list, and start
addressing these.
Buy your wedding rings.
Buy shoes, garters, and other accessories.
Finalize honeymoon plans. Check on passports,
ID's, etc.
Arrange for name and address changes. You can
pick up a kit at the Post Office. Also check on bank accounts, credit
cards, drivers license, passports, social security, etc.
Check accommodations for out of town guests. Many
hotels/motels will offer some discount if you tell them what this if
for.
Contact anyone who has not responded to your
invitations.
Make any seating plans for the wedding and/or
reception.
Finalize all your plans. Don't forget to contact
the band, minister, photographer, videographer, baker, tuxedo's and
dresses, florist, caterer, and anyone else you may have worked with.
First of all, relax. By now, you should have
pretty much everything in place. This should be just a simple phone call
to all the folks with which you have done business.
Prepare checks for payments. You can put all
these in an envelope, marked for each vendor. Perhaps your best man, or
someone you appoint, can hand these out to the proper vendors. You don't
need to handle this. You will have many guests to attend too.
Get everything ready for the Rehearsal Dinner and
Wedding Day (rings, flower girl basket, gown's, tuxedo's, any gifts,
toasting glasses, cake knife, guest book, candles, favors, etc).
Prepare an emergency kit. These are always good
to have on hand. It should include: aspirin, safety pin, mini sewing
kit, extra pair of panty hose, brush and comb, lipstick and makeup,
breath mints, hair spray and gel, stain removing spray.
Pick up any tickets and finalize travel
arrangements.
Give guest count to cater and reception hall.
Discuss any last minute details with the bridal
party.
Although this list is not all inclusive, it does
help to get one organized. There's nothing worse than coming up to your
wedding day, wondering if you've forgotten something or left something
out.
Print this list out, refer to it often, and your
wedding will be a success.
The Great Imponderables is a band that works with
wedding receptions and other special events. We're here to help you.
Please let us know if there is anything else we can do to help. If you
have suggestions for this page or site, please let us
know! And once again,
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR WEDDING!!!
"Have you ever imagined a
world with no hypothetical situations"
